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Sunday, September 13, 2009

Can you be together and alone, and still be happy? Find out in Susan Wittig Albert's new memoir "Together Alone"

Being married means being in a partnership with someone you love, working together, being together and making a life together. Many typical marriages involve a husband and wife who work, and see each other in the mornings, at night after work and on weekends. But there are a lucky few who work together and are around each other 24/7. How can these couples be together all the time, and ever have any alone time to themselves? How can any married couple be a part of a partnership and still retain an identity of their own?

Susan Wittig Albert examines this unique marital situation in her new book, “Together Alone: A Memoir of Marriage and Place.” In this beautifully written journal, Albert takes her readers along on the journey she and her husband and writing partner Bill Albert embarked upon at the beginning of their marriage.

Leaving their jobs and the hustle and bustle of the big city, the couple set up a homestead on some property that Bill owned. Calling their new home Meadow Knoll, the two raised their own livestock and vegetables, and continued their writing careers. Working on a joint project – a Victorian mysteries series - as well as their separate writing ventures (she is the author of the bestselling China Bayles mystery series and the Beatrix Potter Cottage Tales series), they have been successful in living and working together for over twenty years.

Albert also shares that while she revels in the partnership she and her husband enjoyed, she still longed for a place where she could find a sense of self that can only be found when one is alone. For Albert, this place was the South Texas sanctuary, known as Lebh Shomea, a silent monastic retreat. She describes finding a counter-balance, of how the silence and solitude soothed her soul, even though her heart longed to be with the one she loved back home.

Including excerpts from meaningful books as well as entries from her personal diaries, Albert has crafted a beautiful tribute to a strong marriage. “Together Alone” is a pleasure to read.

(And is it possible to live together and work together – I’d say yes. My husband Don and I have being doing just that for the past 27 years!)

I read this memoir as a part of the HerStories Memoir Challenge hosted by the Story Circle Network (http://www.storycircle.org/.)

The HerStories Memoir Challenge is reading 3 women's memoirs in 3 months. This challenge starts September 1, 2009, and runs through November. For more information, go to http://storycircle.typepad.com/challenge/


Petty Witter said...

I bought this as a wedding present. I must get a copy for myself as well as it sounded so wonderful, perhaps I should have bought two copies at the time.

Sharon's Garden of Book Reviews said...

What a wonderful wedding present idea! I highly recommend it for that or as an anniversary present!!

Elizabeth Spann Craig said...

Thanks so much for sharing this one, Sharon. This is really appealing to me--I do find my alone-time really enjoyable, but it's good to balance it with time with my husband, too. I'll pick this book up.

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Meadowview Thymes said...

I am just starting to read this book and enjoying every minute. I am a big Susan Albert fan (and a good friend of China's!). Susan Albert has the writing talent to take me with her where ever she goes, and in this case I am right there beside her at Meadow Knoll..I can't wait to read on and discover her secret to the balance she has achieved. Thanks for the great review!

Janel said...

Sounds like a wonderful book! Sometimes I wish my husband didn't work such long hours away from home, but on the other hand I'm not sure I'd like him around all the time!

Sharon's Garden of Book Reviews said...

It's a delicate balance to have the hubbys around all the time, and finding time for yourself.

Marjorie said...

This sounds a beautiful book - and I like the idea of giving it as a wedding present. Thank you for highlighting it.